another off topic post

my best friend LOVES to complain. just LOVES it. her life is SO DAMN HORRIBLE. fine, you know, you got problems, and i got no problem letting you talk it out. but when your problems have easy solutions and you simply refuse to fix them? sorry, i have no sympathy. not when theyre all you talk about and they're SUCH A BIG DEAL. if theyre such a problem, FIX THEM. you want to complain about them, or that you have a bad day on occasion? fine. you want to try to fix them and talk about how its rough? ill listen. but if you want to reject every solution and just wallow in how your life sucks and then make them worse by what you actually do try? sorry, im tired of hearing it.